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Re: Your dreams which are not necessarily cataclysmic
« Reply #300 on: June 02, 2018, 09:18:31 PM »
I'm about to ask the Florida sister is she ever has dreams that seem important.

Please let us know if she answers you on this...
This is somewhat difficult to write and admit.  I was contemplating how I would phrase the question to FL sister re dreams, when I received a copy of an email that was never meant to be copied to me.

The copied email I received was first from one sister to the other, then a reply from the other back to the first sister, and in the second mailing, somehow I got inadvertently copied and thus received both emails.  OMG, I was stunned to see how very negatively and disparagingly they were talking about me.  I am still somewhat in shock.  Not angry, but in shock.

Because of their obvious hostility toward me, I am right now finding it impossible to enter into any communication with either of them.  We've had our ups and downs over the years but in recent times I actually thought our relationships were fairly good and had normalized.

 I guess reading text on a computer screen, without the eye contact, physical presence, intonation, body language,  and the like, makes it more difficult to glean genuine feelings and motives!  So, sorry Yowbarb, but I feel like I'm letting you down for now.  If I can muster up what it takes to behave as if I never saw the unintended email, then I'll contact her about her dreams, then will get back with you.

Also, I'll call you if I have any dreams I think you should hear about immediatley.

ilinda, I just saw your reply... Oh, you're not letting me down at all. I'm just so sorry that the hostility was divulged to you that way...
That is shocking.
I grew up without a sister, not even aunts or female cousins living nearby... so I maybe that is why never really learned to get along well with women...I remember considering many females gossipy into gamesmanship too much, bitches, etc. disloyal and etc. I forced myself ot expand my viewpoint more, late and to think about humanity as a whole...

As the mother of four daughters (one son) I have learned a lot in past few decades. I do know that sisters will blow off steam to one another. One sis will be closer for awhile...One may be on the outs" for awhile...

Question: Was the hostility anything to do with your beliefs, spiritual matters or coming cataclysms... (Only if you want to say what it was.)
Again, I am so sorry...
I know you are not asking for advice her it is: Do let them know, right away you did read what they wrote about you. Point blank ask what the deal is, and let them know you did not know they felt that way, and ask if anything can be done about it.
Hostility like that can make me physically ill (like flu) etc. so it is good to bounce it back at a person... Don't take it in and let it injure you, bounce it off...
Blessings...

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Re: Your dreams which are not necessarily cataclysmic
« Reply #301 on: June 03, 2018, 05:28:38 AM »
Like Barb, I didn't grow up with sisters either, just lots of brothers, so my understanding is probably skewed, and I too have been shy around competitive women but highly value nurturing women - in fact find them priceless.

Conversely, due to primogeniture (being first-born), I find myself needing to be careful to moderate my own tone so as not to come off sounding bossy 8)

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Re: Your dreams which are not necessarily cataclysmic
« Reply #302 on: June 03, 2018, 09:35:12 PM »
I'm about to ask the Florida sister is she ever has dreams that seem important.

Please let us know if she answers you on this...
This is somewhat difficult to write and admit.  I was contemplating how I would phrase the question to FL sister re dreams, when I received a copy of an email that was never meant to be copied to me.

The copied email I received was first from one sister to the other, then a reply from the other back to the first sister, and in the second mailing, somehow I got inadvertently copied and thus received both emails.  OMG, I was stunned to see how very negatively and disparagingly they were talking about me.  I am still somewhat in shock.  Not angry, but in shock.

Because of their obvious hostility toward me, I am right now finding it impossible to enter into any communication with either of them.  We've had our ups and downs over the years but in recent times I actually thought our relationships were fairly good and had normalized.

 I guess reading text on a computer screen, without the eye contact, physical presence, intonation, body language,  and the like, makes it more difficult to glean genuine feelings and motives!  So, sorry Yowbarb, but I feel like I'm letting you down for now.  If I can muster up what it takes to behave as if I never saw the unintended email, then I'll contact her about her dreams, then will get back with you.

Also, I'll call you if I have any dreams I think you should hear about immediatley.

ilinda, I just saw your reply... Oh, you're not letting me down at all. I'm just so sorry that the hostility was divulged to you that way...
That is shocking.
I grew up without a sister, not even aunts or female cousins living nearby... so I maybe that is why never really learned to get along well with women...I remember considering many females gossipy into gamesmanship too much, bitches, etc. disloyal and etc. I forced myself ot expand my viewpoint more, late and to think about humanity as a whole...

As the mother of four daughters (one son) I have learned a lot in past few decades. I do know that sisters will blow off steam to one another. One sis will be closer for awhile...One may be on the outs" for awhile...

Question: Was the hostility anything to do with your beliefs, spiritual matters or coming cataclysms... (Only if you want to say what it was.)
Again, I am so sorry...
I know you are not asking for advice her it is: Do let them know, right away you did read what they wrote about you. Point blank ask what the deal is, and let them know you did not know they felt that way, and ask if anything can be done about it.
Hostility like that can make me physically ill (like flu) etc. so it is good to bounce it back at a person... Don't take it in and let it injure you, bounce it off...
Blessings...
Thank you for your thoughtful comments, Barb.  In a nutshell, both sisters have always claimed "Linda was the favorite", and that has influenced their thinking and actions on many fronts.  Even though I do not believe it was true, that is their belief and nothing that I know of is going to jar them back to reality.

And in addition, as you mentioned my "beliefs, spiritual matters"...etc., are another issue.

If I do decide to inform them of my receipt of that email not intended for my eyes, I'll let you know their reaction.  I am definitely not angry, not hostile, and actually feeling somewhat empowered.  Sounds bizarre, but it is sort of like, "The Truth Will Set You Free".  Now I know not to expend much energy on people who are hostile--it is best to conserve one's energy and use it for higher purposes.  A time may come when we will need spiritual energy in amounts greater than in use today and that is what I am preparing for.

I keep looking at one of my notebooks where I have made notes on the practice of Hara, which in essence is a practice in which the practitioner mentally envisions the intake of spiritual or universal energy, and then directing that energy to a sort of reservoir behind the navel, where it can be amplified and/or stored for later use.  There's a bit more ot it, but you get the drift.  It is said that some energy healers use the energy they have "saved" and "amplified" in their Hara.  Sort of gotten off track of dreams a bit!

 

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